growing in love 🌹
when we sit and dwell deep within the depth of our being and study ourselves from the inside out we understand that we begin and end with love. everyone you meet is a mirror and direct reflection back to your soul, to your desires, to your triggers.
when souls come into union with eachother, the entanglement of energies bleed and melt into eachother. where your cuts lay, my medicine will pour. hardened hearts melt as love is activated and wounds arise to the surface as both souls mirror their being back to the other.
this is not two halves of a soul merging to become one, this is two souls, whole, in unison, mirroring their being and essence back to the other. two souls evolving on their own and choosing to grow in love.
the deeper you tune in to your own inner world, your wants, your needs, your desires, your triggers, your vulnerabilities, your divinity… the deeper you will see yourself for the love that you exist as. the minute we see ourselves and all of our colours, we will then be able to see this reflection in others. to love is to see the others wants, needs, desires, triggers, vulnerabilities & divinity and honour them, the way we do our own.
i like to believed love is a frequency, not an emotion, if we use love as our filter to see one another it is a portal to seeing the divinity in everyone we meet. to move beyond the ego and see their essence. when we chose to love someone, we chose to merge, to unravel and transform, we chose to grow alongside them and honour their being.
the more you love and honour yourself & your being, the more you will be able to love and honour another. a journey of self love, when talked about can sometimes trigger many thoughts:
“why do i have to wait until im whole until someone can love me” - but this is not the case.
we are all whole from the minute we get here on earth, however life gets in the way and we can start to believe that love can only exist in another person and not ourselves, which then leads the journey of searching for our purpose and love in others, forgetting what we are searching for was in ourselves. no one on this earth is your missing piece and searching for yourself in another can have you ignorant to your essence. you are love. you are spirit. you are all you have ever wanted. when you study the triggers that lead you away from this process and give them space for release, you will then be able to honour all that you felt was unworthy or had to be hidden. by giving space to these pieces you see that you were looking to heal yourself through someone else, the triggers that arose were your mirror of what you were avoiding within yourself.
As you allow your own love to pour into your cuts, flowers will bloom and a new version of you takes it place. love is activated and new vulnerabilities and desires take their place. you recognise you are whole, you recognise you are love. you then start the process of aligning with a frequency more attuned to what your heart truly wants & in turn begin the process of growing in love with another. two wholes aligning with the essence of their being, vibrating at the same frequency, love. they were love all along, you were love all along. we are all love, we are all one.
“lovers don’t finally meet somewhere, they were in eachother all along” - Rumi